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Acquaintance Rape 1. What
is rape?
Answer: In Pennsylvania, rape is sexual intercourse by force or
threat of force. It can also be when someone suffers from mental
disability, or is less than 13 years of age, or is unconscious, or has
been given drugs, alcohol or other means of preventing resistance. Did you
know that in PA if someone says "No" to sexual intercourse even just one
time, and the other person continues to have sexual intercourse with him
or her, this is rape. Acquaintance rape (previously known as date rape)
occurs when the victim knew their rapist to some extent. As a matter of
fact, 85% of rape victims knew the offender.
2. When is it the victimıs fault that they
were raped?
Answer: It is never the victim's fault that they were raped. It is
always the rapist's fault. No matter what high risks a victim may have
taken, there was nothing that they did to cause the rape to occur.
3. Why is it that the highest risk
category for rape victims falls between the ages of 16 and 25?
Answer: This age bracket represents when people are most vulnerable
to this crime. People who are 16 to 25 may be trying a good deal of things
for the first time. They are spending more time away from adults and
parents, receiving their driver's license, getting into cars with people,
meeting new people, moving away from home, experimenting with sexual
activities, experimenting with drugs and alcohol, entering the work force,
or moving on to college. Many of these things are positive first time
experiences and are a part of growing up. However they may represent
higher risks. You have the opportunity to decide what risks you are
willing to take, and what risks are not worth it
4. What motivates a rapist to commit
their crime?
Answer: Rape is a crime of power. A rapist is an angry person who
chooses to handle their anger in a negative way. A rapist tries to
increase his or her own feeling of power, by controlling and dominating
another person. Often times people feel that a rapist rapes out of the
need for sexual gratification, however, this is not the primary motivating
factor.
5. Name three things someone can do
to reduce their risk of becoming a victim of rape.
Answer: Some of your answers may have included:
1.
Knowledge - Knowing what rape is and is not can help you reduce your
risk. Also, by knowing what is out there, like "date rape" drugs.
2.
Creating sexual boundaries - By knowing ahead of time what you beliefs
are about sexual interaction, and its place in your life, it will be
easier to make and stand by your decisions if ever placed in a scary or
tricky situation.
3.
Communication - It is important to communicate your wants and desires in
a confident and assertive way. This will also help you avoid sending
mixed messages to other people. Put things in clear, easy to understand
terms.
4. Do
not drink and use drugs - As you may have learned in health class, drugs
and alcohol cause a decrease in judgment and the lowering of
inhibitions. People who are under the influence have a tendency to do
and say things they normally would not, if their mind were not clouded
by substances.
5. Know your rights and
responsibilities - You have the right to say "NO" to sexual activity,
and the responsibility to give consent (permission).
6. Avoid
getting into cars and going to isolated places with people you do not
know and do not feel comfortable with.
7.
Inform others - Tell your parents/caretaker where you are going and what
time to expect you home. This is not so they can check up on you, but so
they know where to start looking and when to become concerned, if
something were to ever happen.
8. Use
strength in numbers - Go places with your friends, watch each other's
backs, and leave with the same people you went with.
9. Trust
your instincts - When something doesn't feel right, leave the situation
if possible.
No matter how many high risks a person
takes, it still is never the victim's fault if they are raped!
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